So you’ve gotten to the point in your relationship whatever that is, where trust has been established enough to start to discuss and negotiate play time. Most often it is expected that the Dominant will take the lead on the negotiations by asking questions, talking about various things we could do or get into, that doesn’t mean that you don’t have a responsibility to protect yourself and know a few things going into it. Here is the breakdown of how we think a negotiation should be.
P( Physical)
M (Mentally)
E (Emotionally)
T (Testing medically / New partners / protection / birth control)
L (Like to experience)
A (Would like to avoid)